Good thoughts for a good friend please- RIP 6 Oct

Subject: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,Jack Sprocket
Date: 08 May 09 - 07:34 PM

I'm a regular here, but I'd rather not identify her, so indulgence please Joe.

A very good friend has ovarian cancer and has an operation booked on Monday. Its advanced; she's weak and in pain, and I fear the outcome might not be good. I'm clinging to the idea that they wouldn't operate if there weren't a fighting chance.

I've loved her a long time, and I suspect that a lot of my anguish is selfish, the thought of having to live without her. But let me pretend to be altruistic for a while yet. If good thoughts can do any good, please give them a try.

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From: GUEST,another friend
Date: 08 May 09 - 07:38 PM

My very best wishes for this person too and for her loving friend

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Azizi
Date: 08 May 09 - 08:06 PM

I'm sending positive healing vibrations for your friend and also positive vibrations to you.

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From: skipy
Date: 08 May 09 - 08:16 PM

My very best wishes & thought are with you.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 08 May 09 - 09:08 PM

best wishes to you both

sandra

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From: Maryrrf
Date: 08 May 09 - 09:19 PM

Hoping and praying for the best possible outcome.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Neil D
Date: 08 May 09 - 09:26 PM

Best wishes, prayers for you both. We know what a scary time this can be, first hand, and hope for the best outcome.

                               Neil and Christina

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From: alanabit
Date: 08 May 09 - 09:32 PM

Anyone would wish you both well - and so do I.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Dorothy Parshall
Date: 08 May 09 - 09:37 PM

Good thoughts are imperative. Pure, intense love can help her have the strength to find her own positive attitude and overcome fear. Nothing gives us more strength than the absolute knowledge that we are totally loved. To know you will be with her no matter what is your best gift to her, and to you. Holding you both in peace and love. D

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Janie
Date: 08 May 09 - 10:59 PM

Thoughts of healing light and comfort going up from North Carolina, USA.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: katlaughing
Date: 08 May 09 - 11:02 PM

Good wishes for peace and strength for what you are both going through. Being there for her is the best you can do; share as much as possible of what you love of each other and stay as positive as possible. Light and Love will help.

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From: open mike
Date: 08 May 09 - 11:36 PM

golden light and love power winging to you both...

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 09 May 09 - 02:41 AM

I am here and I hope for the best for you and your friend.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: My guru always said
Date: 09 May 09 - 06:35 AM

Sending positive thoughts!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: gnu
Date: 09 May 09 - 06:53 AM

Thoughts and prayers.

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From: Tinker
Date: 09 May 09 - 07:39 AM

Blessings and light to you both....

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: ranger1
Date: 09 May 09 - 12:17 PM

Good thoughts from Maine coming your way.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST
Date: 09 May 09 - 03:51 PM

Love and healing thoughts to you both......suzi. x

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From: wysiwyg
Date: 09 May 09 - 04:09 PM

OK....

~S~

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From: fat B****rd
Date: 09 May 09 - 04:47 PM

All the very best to you both, XXXX.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,Jack Sprocket
Date: 10 May 09 - 01:10 PM

Thanks to all of you, and may you be cared about when you are in need too.

We took her to the hospital this afternoon, and a hard journey it was. She wouldn't complain, but it was clear she felt every jolt in the road for the whole twenty mile journey, and guided us via a short detour round the hospital (she knows it well; she works there) to avoid a road with speed bumps. After the almost inevitable heartstopping delay- they weren't expecting her, no one had read the changed date for the operation- we saw her installed and ready for treatment under the best specialist in the region.

Whatever happens now, I'll love her for the rest of my life.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Janie
Date: 10 May 09 - 01:27 PM

And that love is the most precious of gifts to her.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: maeve
Date: 10 May 09 - 02:28 PM

We're waiting for news along with you. Love and laughter and an easy peace between friends make a good trio.

maeve

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Sorcha
Date: 10 May 09 - 05:30 PM

Keep us posted. I'm not good at platitudes, but thinking of you all. This is a nasty thing to happen to a good person.

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From: GUEST,Essay
Date: 10 May 09 - 05:52 PM

thinking of you at this time - all the best.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,another friend
Date: 10 May 09 - 08:20 PM

Hoping and wishing for the very best and good thoughts to you too 'Jack'
Thanks for the call, please stay in touch.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: ClaireBear
Date: 11 May 09 - 12:03 PM

Saying a prayer right now, and sending positive energy. Trust in love. Nothing is surer,

Claire

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From: Little Hawk
Date: 11 May 09 - 12:18 PM

Sending...

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From: Hawker
Date: 11 May 09 - 03:29 PM

Hugs, Healing, prayers and Lots of love to you both,
Lucy x

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,Jack Sprocket
Date: 11 May 09 - 04:42 PM

Update- Operation over, back on ward. No news of any findings so far.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: gnu
Date: 11 May 09 - 06:15 PM

Fingers crossed.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,lox
Date: 11 May 09 - 06:24 PM

I think you're right ...

... I don't think they would operate if there was no hope.

Be positive and be strong and think of the good times to come, for your sake and hers.

Healing vibes headed your way.

Lox

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Tig
Date: 11 May 09 - 06:25 PM

Lots of love and BIG healing hugs for both of you.

Tig
xxx

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Janie
Date: 11 May 09 - 10:17 PM

May light and what aid and comfort prayers and good thoughts offer surround both of you.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 12 May 09 - 04:56 AM

sending more good wishes for positive results from the operation

sandra (who had a positive result in January)

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Bryn Pugh
Date: 12 May 09 - 09:28 AM

Love, Light and Blessings to you both. May the Great Mother and the All Father heal and comfort you both.

S mote it be.

Erica and Bryn

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From: SINSULL
Date: 12 May 09 - 02:13 PM

Prayers and a candle.
Mary

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,Jack Sprocket.
Date: 12 May 09 - 03:20 PM

Update: Operation went well. No news yet on what they found. She's conscious and comfortable.

Thanks to you all.

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From: katlaughing
Date: 12 May 09 - 04:20 PM

That is good to hear, JS. Thanks for letting us know. Much love and light coming her/your way.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Cool Beans
Date: 12 May 09 - 04:56 PM

The best to both of you from Detroit.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,Jack Sprocket
Date: 13 May 09 - 04:15 PM

A very cautious hallibalooyah! I've just seen her for the first time since the op, and I know it's partly the painkillers, but she's sitting up in bed and smiling! I thought I'd never see that smile again.

There's a long haul to come- she sees the onchologist on Monday, and there's probably a 5 month or more course of chemo to come, and her hair will drop out, but if she gets through that and stays clear for 2 years, there's a good chance that she'll survive for the rest of her life.

Thank you all so much for the support, I've given her my share of the love cos I don't deserve it, except a bit here now tp give back to you.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: ranger1
Date: 13 May 09 - 04:19 PM

Thanks for the update. And keep some of the love yourself. Cool thing about love is the more you give, the more you get. Sounds to me like you're giving plenty, so you deserve it, too.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: VirginiaTam
Date: 13 May 09 - 04:20 PM

What lovely hopeful news. It has been interesting wishing and hoping for a good outcome for doubly anoymous people. But no matter. Need is need, and my good thoughts follow need.

Hugs to you and wishing for an even brighter day tomorrow.

with love, Tamara

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Janie
Date: 13 May 09 - 04:48 PM

I'm so glad for you both that there is very hopeful news. Will continue to send up good thoughts. Keep us posted.

Janie

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: GUEST,another friend
Date: 13 May 09 - 04:53 PM

Glad you got to visit today 'Jack'; hope you passed my best wishes on too.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Sorcha
Date: 13 May 09 - 05:27 PM

Looks like good news there, buddy!

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Sandra in Sydney
Date: 13 May 09 - 09:11 PM

great news

more hugs to you both

sandra

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: jacqui.c
Date: 14 May 09 - 07:49 AM

I've just found this thread. It is always so hard on those who can do nothing but wait.

Good thoughts coming from Maine.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Bryn Pugh
Date: 14 May 09 - 10:51 AM

Oh, that's good news - thank you. May her recovery and yours continue.

So mote it be.

Subject: RE: BS: Good thoughts for a good friend please
From: Maryrrf
Date: 14 May 09 - 01:57 PM

That's good news. I hope for her full recovery.